by sadistik » January 28th, 2009, 9:26 pm
k, idk how you are with all girls (just the one) But what I've realized is that they really like aggression, even if they say they dont. I've heard it a million times before but never really got it.. I'm going to give you three cenerios of girls i've tried to get with
1, barely any agression:
The first girl I ever tried to go out with was a chick named Stephanie whom I met at a Paramount There park (Great America) I was with my best friend and she had her best friend so we got their phone numbers. This was before I had a job or a car lol so we wound up taking a 15 minute train ride to visit them after a few weeks of talking on the phone. This was my first expierience so I had no clue at all what to do, i'd never had a gf, never kissed a girl before lol.. i was hopeless.. Being nice took me a little bit of the way, I got as far as her straddling me in the car, but i was too afraid to try anything else.. I simply didn't know any better.. I didn't know that straddling me = she wanted me.. nothing happened after that for a long time..
Almost couple of years later, During my first real relationship with girl #2 (i'll get to her later), my friend has my cellphone, and I didn't know what he was doing, but he texted her (as me) "Wanna come out and play?" .. an almost instant response comes back, we start talking again for about a week and she invites me over for her holloween party.. She told me her costume was a suprise, she was a "firechick" really short red shorts, and a tight white tee, and glasses for the sexy intelligent look.. I had gone over there with the thought of cheating, she knew I had a gf too, she didn't care.. But I couldn't do it even thought I wanted to, because of my loyalty to my gf.. I've never spoken to this chick sense.. she was a 10 too... If I knew then what I know now...
Not really agressive but the text "wanna come out and play" was not something I would have done, but she responded quickly to it, because it was sort of kinky
2, Started sorta aggressive (for me), but lost it.
I just came back from a flight from Florida on Halloween, my friend calls me over to go trick-or-treating with some girl he wants to go out with. I go. we find out ahead of time that the girl he's interested in has a friend who is coming too.. Now I was thinking, lol I can have some fun with this.. I basically had given up hope of finding a gf, so i decided wtf, I'll probibly never see her again, I'm just gonna say a bunch of sh*t and see what happens.. I told her my name was Seth, and that I was an upcoming rapper.. lol .. This girl eventually became the dreaded ex gf that I'd love to strangle for the way she sort of used me.. lol.. But I was even aggressive enough after confirming we were in a relationship to begin the first feeling her up on my own... that worked out very well for me.
Anyway, we fell in love, and My hopeless attitude went away, I'd become soft and for about 2 years we went out, but lost her when she started going to college.. I'd invested everything into her, she became a whore.. things went downhill very very fast. I dont think my lack of aggression actually lost her, it's just she changed and wanted to put out to everyone.. something I really cant control.
3, rebound... lol, strong aggression
Some random chick myspaced me and complimented me on my pic something similar to "you're really fine" I saw her picture, and it was misleading as hell.. It was a dark picture with her hair kind of over her forehead, it didn't look that bad.. I figured, hey, she's not super hot, but it'll get my mind off of my ex.. She ws from pittsburg (Ca) a "bay area city" and she talked sort of ghetto, so lol... I started just saying the most ghetto sh*t I could think of just messing around like, "what's crackin in the 925?" (her area code) In like 3 hours of myspacing I got a phone number thinking wtf... that was fast.. after talking on the phone for a few weeks, sometime during she says she's a freak, so i'm thinking This was gonna be a good score.. We set a date, I'm thinking I'm gonna impress her so I tell her Red lobster.. I was going big, after we planned to fool around in a movie theater.. Here's what actually happened...
I get to her house, and Find out immediately she was f*cking gross.. She was about as tall as me, Chunky, her hair in the pic was hiding a humungous forehead, and her chin was big too.. this chick is 0 on a 1-10 scale.. I kept it cool though, and tried to think on how to get out of it.. I took her to red lobster, and planned on faking being sick after eating.. I got so tense on wanting to get the hell out of there, I actually was able to make myself throw up in front of the theater.. That way she saw me throw up lol... I never called her again.. I was fooled by a pic, and I'm not doing that again..
Now.. The best advice seriously is be yourself, but make yourself aggressive.. both times I started doing thing I wouldn't have normally done were really in desperation, but they worked.. Since then 2-3 years ago, I've naturally become more aggressive because of my life situation, When I was going broke in California I became more aggressive to survive, When I moved to South Carolina I became more aggressive to make something of myself. Aggression isn't necessarily bad, it just depends on how you use it. I think that's all I had to write, It's like 2 weeks since I thought of this lol.. if not, I'll post more later, but I think that's all.
k, idk how you are with all girls (just the one) But what I've realized is that they really like aggression, even if they say they dont. I've heard it a million times before but never really got it.. I'm going to give you three cenerios of girls i've tried to get with
1, barely any agression:
[spoiler]The first girl I ever tried to go out with was a chick named Stephanie whom I met at a Paramount There park (Great America) I was with my best friend and she had her best friend so we got their phone numbers. This was before I had a job or a car lol so we wound up taking a 15 minute train ride to visit them after a few weeks of talking on the phone. This was my first expierience so I had no clue at all what to do, i'd never had a gf, never kissed a girl before lol.. i was hopeless.. Being nice took me a little bit of the way, I got as far as her straddling me in the car, but i was too afraid to try anything else.. I simply didn't know any better.. I didn't know that straddling me = she wanted me.. nothing happened after that for a long time..
Almost couple of years later, During my first real relationship with girl #2 (i'll get to her later), my friend has my cellphone, and I didn't know what he was doing, but he texted her (as me) "Wanna come out and play?" .. an almost instant response comes back, we start talking again for about a week and she invites me over for her holloween party.. She told me her costume was a suprise, she was a "firechick" really short red shorts, and a tight white tee, and glasses for the sexy intelligent look.. I had gone over there with the thought of cheating, she knew I had a gf too, she didn't care.. But I couldn't do it even thought I wanted to, because of my loyalty to my gf.. I've never spoken to this chick sense.. she was a 10 too... If I knew then what I know now...
[color=#FFFF00]Not really agressive but the text "wanna come out and play" was not something I would have done, but she responded quickly to it, because it was sort of kinky[/color][/spoiler]
2, Started sorta aggressive (for me), but lost it.
[spoiler]I just came back from a flight from Florida on Halloween, my friend calls me over to go trick-or-treating with some girl he wants to go out with. I go. we find out ahead of time that the girl he's interested in has a friend who is coming too.. Now I was thinking, lol I can have some fun with this.. I basically had given up hope of finding a gf, so i decided wtf, I'll probibly never see her again, I'm just gonna say a bunch of sh*t and see what happens.. I told her my name was Seth, and that I was an upcoming rapper.. lol .. This girl eventually became the dreaded ex gf that I'd love to strangle for the way she sort of used me.. lol.. But I was even aggressive enough after confirming we were in a relationship to begin the first feeling her up on my own... that worked out very well for me.
Anyway, we fell in love, and My hopeless attitude went away, I'd become soft and for about 2 years we went out, but lost her when she started going to college.. I'd invested everything into her, she became a whore.. things went downhill very very fast. I dont think my lack of aggression actually lost her, it's just she changed and wanted to put out to everyone.. something I really cant control.[/spoiler]
3, rebound... lol, strong aggression
[spoiler]Some random chick myspaced me and complimented me on my pic something similar to "you're really fine" I saw her picture, and it was misleading as hell.. It was a dark picture with her hair kind of over her forehead, it didn't look that bad.. I figured, hey, she's not super hot, but it'll get my mind off of my ex.. She ws from pittsburg (Ca) a "bay area city" and she talked sort of ghetto, so lol... I started just saying the most ghetto sh*t I could think of just messing around like, "what's crackin in the 925?" (her area code) In like 3 hours of myspacing I got a phone number thinking wtf... that was fast.. after talking on the phone for a few weeks, sometime during she says she's a freak, so i'm thinking This was gonna be a good score.. We set a date, I'm thinking I'm gonna impress her so I tell her Red lobster.. I was going big, after we planned to fool around in a movie theater.. Here's what actually happened...
I get to her house, and Find out immediately she was f*cking gross.. She was about as tall as me, Chunky, her hair in the pic was hiding a humungous forehead, and her chin was big too.. this chick is 0 on a 1-10 scale.. I kept it cool though, and tried to think on how to get out of it.. I took her to red lobster, and planned on faking being sick after eating.. I got so tense on wanting to get the hell out of there, I actually was able to make myself throw up in front of the theater.. That way she saw me throw up lol... I never called her again.. I was fooled by a pic, and I'm not doing that again..[/spoiler]
Now.. The best advice seriously is be yourself, but make yourself aggressive.. both times I started doing thing I wouldn't have normally done were really in desperation, but they worked.. Since then 2-3 years ago, I've naturally become more aggressive because of my life situation, When I was going broke in California I became more aggressive to survive, When I moved to South Carolina I became more aggressive to make something of myself. Aggression isn't necessarily bad, it just depends on how you use it. I think that's all I had to write, It's like 2 weeks since I thought of this lol.. if not, I'll post more later, but I think that's all.