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Don't take the law into your own hands. Show the 'Five-Oh' a bruise, give a story, hello investigation.

Tell her it won't go away if she just lets it happen. Honestly, just go beat the f*ck out of the guy ;\

Unless he's bigger than you. That's when you take a bat =p

One time this dude messaged me online and said something to the effect of "I heard you're dong my girl" (lol). Turns out, this chick I had been seeing was his girlfriend - and she was a skank and sleeping around. But at least he was cool enough to talk to me first (as was suggested above) and realize that it wasn't my fault, it was hers.

In your situation, I think that any involvement between the two of you should be as neutral as possible. Prove that you didn't move back just to screw up their relationship and that it's a 50/50 deal: she has half the decision to be in a realtionship with you, and you have the other half.

Since he's already hit her, I would IMMEDIATELY (not the next morning ... immediately ....) call the police and file a report. They'll lock his *ss in jail until the judge sees him. Most states take domestic abuse very very seriously. And since she's already been hit, she'll be immediately approved for a restraining order which means he'll get locked up for a very long time if he comes anywhere near her (even out on town).

So my recommendation would be a combination of:

1. File a police report ASAP and make sure that she's protected by a court ordered separation
2. If you confront him or he confronts you, stand your ground but try to be diplomatic. Otherwise you'll end up in jail, too.

(FYI: just saying you're going to hurt someone, or even spitting on them, is considered assault - you don't have to do very much to be convicted of assault - trust me, I know )

Don't do anything to stupid =/

Did it done it all..I beat up all my X's brothers and her X husband over and over..all I got was broken hands and misery. If she will not put a restraint order on him..then she is not ready to let him go?
If you run into him..talk nice and reason with the goof, and if he gets crazy..stand tall and fill him in.
make sure he swings first..or its jail for you!!
Always aim for the chin!!
f*cking bitches are a night mare!!!

I don't want to sound harsh, but you know me: I don't hold back. So take this how you will.

If you're a man, you won't stand for the abuse of any woman under any circumstance. I don't care "if she deserved it". A man hitting a man is one thing - let them work it out. But a man has no reason to hit/hurt a woman ...... ever. Add the complications of you and that drama - then I would say his motive is entirely unjust and immature and he deserves to have his *ss beat.

HOWEVER, since you'll want to avoid being arrested on assault, I would recommend reporting it to the police. But as a man, you have an obligation to protect woman - even those you don't know - and if you can't kick his *ss or make it end some other way, then she definitely needs to have it reported to the police.

You have to be the bigger person here, Ruiner. She might be too scared to go to the police. And you might be too pacifist to do anything about it. Which means a woman you care about who can't defend herself is being repeatedly abused - and you're just watching. That makes you part of the problem, not a part of the solution.

If I saw a guy beating up on a girl, I'd kick his *ss. I don't even have to know the girl. And if I saw a guy watching as some guy beat up on a girl, I'd kick his *ss too. Men try to be all tough these days, but when it comes down to the important issues of being a good father, a good partner, and a man with integrity and values, they fail miserably. So all I can suggest to you is "step up to the plate and do something about it".

Ok my thoughts, and sorry for my bad english.

But I think there is something wrong here. If ur GF had an relationship with him, then she knows his name.
When she went to the police and told his name, they would NEVER say. Were arent going to do sh*t because we dont know him. Isn't america so proud on there organised person database?

Even here in the netherlands EVERYONE can be found. Even if you dont have a house. A mate of me got arrested for killing some1. He got away and moved every single day to somewhere else. And every next day the police showed up at his old adress... The police aint dumb so (without offence) I think what your girl said is bullshit.

Then what you can do, and must do.

Here in the Netherlands is an rule, (Dont know if its in an america to). But when you see an crime, hear about it. Or just know its happening. And you don't report it to the police as fast as possible. You are an accessory of the crime itself.

And in my oppinion that rule is on of the greatest. we arent living in a world where the strongest survive and the weaker die. We are living in an world where any1 should help each other.

So talk to ya GF and convince her to go to the police, else go yourself. Maybe she will hate you for that but who cares? Deep inside of you, you will know you are doing the right thing by going to the police. You will save this girls live.....

If the police are incompetent, then sue the county or state.

There is always a bigger fish. But do NOT let this go unpunished.

Ruiner wrote:We got into it huge last night, we got to talking, we worked some sh*t out and I handed her my knife and was like, next time he comes up to you, put it into his stomach and twist.
If he wants to sit in her house and wait for her to come home, he should be getting a nice surprise next time he shows up.

then she goes into jail for attempt to murder, GG.

Im not even going to give anymore advice cause ur TO STUPID to listen.
Rlly grow up

cyclops, I don't really think that was appropriate. So he doesnt agree with your advice, it doesn't make him stupid.