Today has been a b*tch

[Crazyme99]

Well today i went to school feeling all confident and sh*t hoping for a good day and i was gunna try to ask the NEW girl i like out

At lunch i try to ask out the girl i like, No dice because i couldn't get up the courage to ask her. I went to my civics class and a bunch of my friends started to ask me if i had asked her or not and i said i didn't. So i write a note to her and give it to one of my friend and i wait. So i get the note back and she says this.

i am very very sorry adam but i can't date you because my parents won't allow me to date intill i am 16. Also i am not feeling the same towards you.

All my friends see how depressed so they stop talking about that.

I head to my next class and when i come into class i get my assignment back and i see i failed it because i forgot to hand in my bibolgraphy and she thought i was palargizing.

Then i come home and my mom starts b*tching at me to clean the house and sh*t.

Today been a real bummer

[fl00d3d]

You'll be alright.

[Crazyme99]

You'll be alright.

no i won't i don't fell allright

[fl00d3d]

But you WILL.

It's not the end of the world. I know what its like to be your age and in that situation, but in the end everything will work out. Even if she said that she liked you, apparently her parents aren't letting her date anyway ... so don't make a big deal out of it. Like I said in another thread, keep your focus on friendly. And perhaps the romantic attraction will develop.

[Crazyme99]

ah well i have tried that i been really friendly with this girl since the start of school and we been hanging out and sh*t

[Cronambs]

Just ask her out, i mean hell whats the worse can happen?

Just think once your out of school you have less of a change get a girl friend which almost happened to me btw, now i have some at places of work lol

[Matix]

He did ask her out, just in a non-direct way.

Besides, I think crazyme is trying to make himself a player by asking every girl out he can, aka "desperate" lol...

[fl00d3d]

He did ask her out, just in a non-direct way.

Besides, I think crazyme is trying to make himself a player by asking every girl out he can, aka "desperate" lol...

Did you not just tell me a few weeks ago that you were desperate? Maybe you two should give eachother support. My point I made to both of you is that just because 1-2 ... 5 ... girls don't like you doesn't mean the rest of the world isn't going to be interested in you. There are literally billions of females on this planet. And there is someone for everyone. Be patient.

[medici]

If someone starts a topic in this section the last thing you should do is insult him ('tough love' cases excepted).

I just think that you should forget this one crazy, and move onto someone else, just like last time, eventually you'll find the right person.

[sadistik]

Idk how old you are, but if you're in middle school, don't worry at all, in highschool there's a lot more options.. and if you're already in highschool, wait till you go to college.. all the ghetto *ss girls cant afford to go, so it leaves mostly more wealthy pretty girls for the taking, just work out & have a nice car, it'll be cool.. One thing I've noticed about myself.. I've started working out recently, once you see some results, your confidence builds, making you want to do it more, and drink vitamin water.. it sounded kinda nasty to me at first but I've tasted it, and pretty much ditched soda altogether.. That makes you feel good too, energy and motivation to work out... 2 things about working out tho..

1. don't try to start out doing too much at once, work your way up from a comfortable workout, increasing the intensity and/or length of time as it becomes easier..

2. the results aren't instant, you have to put a few weeks in probibly before you notice any results.. much less great ones.. that'll take longer.. but once you do, you'll definately see that it's worth it..

I got rid of my manboobs and my stomache is still a little big, but not like a bowl of jelly, more solid, cuz i've been doin crunches.. Moral of the story: work out, girls are more shallow that guys most of the time.. and that's the bloody truth

[Crazyme99]

i am over it already thanks guys for your support

and matix i am not desperate.
I jsut know everyone in the 10th grade. I been in class with everyone because i was in applied classes last year now i am in acedemic

[raulperez]

dude i know you've resolved your situation or whatev, but take it from me, a guy who's been through some crazy sh*t lol, don't get too worked up over any one girl... you may feel you've wasted a couple weeks/months, but in the end, you've probably made a great friend, and there are many other girls out there that are probably better suited for you.... and when you find one that really clicks... you'll definitely know

at least, that's my experience

another slightly off topic note... once you get to college, try not to go for many of the high school girls, even if she's a senior.... it makes it ridiculously hard, even if you do only live an hour from your college (me), it definitely makes the times together better, but the times between are soooo hard lol

[Crazyme99]

were in the same grade Raul.

[ecstasy]

time really does heal all wounds... or atleast make them easier to block out, just give it time you'll feel better.

[sadistik]

time really does heal all wounds... or atleast make them easier to block out, just give it time you'll feel better.

yes.. I've gone from being completely devistated & heartbroken to feeling pure remorseless hatred toward my ex..