help me

[help me]

I have a gf im 19 and she 17, turning 18 in a month, we have been gonig out for almost 3 years, 24th this month is our 3 years, but lately she changed
now she is getting different feelnigs, she is changing and wants to have more fun
she says she dosnt want to look back in 5 years and say i wish i did that

i dont know what brought this on it just came from the blue, but the choice she is making is keap me, or try new things, which means new boys, how do i know what it means, cause she told me.
she says she still loves me, we always used to say how were gonan be together 4eva and how were gonna get married, it used to be her saying all this and eventral i started saying it all too but now im the one saying this and she says its to serious now, i dont know what to do anyone hav an opinion?

wb asap

[Ruiner]

Roll with it dude.

If she is even having doubts about your relationship kick the b*tch out and get another. Time changes things and usually not for the best.

If she wants to have more fun, have more fun with her, try new things and see how they work out. If thats the kind of stuff she is getting into and your not then....You can try and work it out or just accept that you had your time together.

If it was me and I was with a girl in the same situation I would do as I said, I would drop the b*tch and find another. If she was questioning me or our relationship Id say see ya later b*tch.

[fl00d3d]

That's just a 17-year old girl being a 17-year old girl.

Turning 18 is an exciting prospect. For the first time you can do whatever the hell you want, move away from your parents, etc. Being 19 you should already have an appreciation for that.

You should also know that in highschool, even the most sincere of relationships don't usually work out. And if they do, the divorce rate is so incredibly high that they end up breaking up anyway. I'm not trying to be a pessimist. I'm trying to be realistic.

I guess my advice to you is: be honest with her about what you feel and what your concerns are. Give her some space, but make sure she knows what you're comfortable with and what you're not comfortable with. If she's OK with it and never crosses those lines you'll be fine. If she's not OK with it or crosses the lines then she values her independance more than your relationship and you should start moving on.

Take this from a guy that has "been there" more than once. I've married and dated more than one 18 year old.

[help me]

well thanks guy needed some addvice since all my mates are f*cked up on drugs and havnt had experiences like these, well anyways just in case your wondering who i am, a girl called jess (my sister) told me to come here she says hi

[fl00d3d]

Hope it all works out.

[Cycl0ps]

And remmember that your also young to, dont think about marrying and stuff right now.
Just have some fun and just keep in your mind, you are who you are.
If some1 wants to change you, tell them that this is you and they have to deal with it.

Maybe you are boring to girl A, but a great possibility that girl B loves you because you are urself.